It’s going to be a long journey, the planning, the running around, the pre-rituals, the actual wedding day… And all this will not only take a physical but also a mental and emotional toll on you and your future husband . Add to that the anticipation and the build-up to the first night it can be exhausting. Slow down, breathe in and take Weddings Roatan advice!
Try to make it special – not perfect!
Just like your big day, you’d have imagined your big night to be perfect too. But you know what – this is just about you and him and honestly, no one will know what happened inside, unless one of you tells. Just focus on making it really, really intimate for the two of you. After all, it’s not all you have. There are thousands of nights to come from here on.
It’s best to keep your expectations low
Sometimes super high expectations can set you up for serious disappointment. So don’t plan too much and just go with the flow. For all you know, the two of you may just doze off in each other’s arms – but then hey, that’s beautiful too.
Shut the doors to your past
Keep all your baggage outside the doors of the past and shut it. Don’t bring it into your marriage, even in the form of a casual conversation. Don’t try to dig up his past either and never play the comparison game. Besides, your first night is about the two of you – not the skeletons in your closet.
Wear something sexy but comfortable
That stringy lingerie you saw on the mannequin or on the model in the brochure might look really awesome but if it doesn’t fit you well, it’s a waste. No point spending the night worrying about the fit or the misfit it is on you. It should be as comfortable as your second skin, only then will you feel sexy in it.
It’s nothing like in the books…
Or in the movies you may have watched. Making love on the wedding night is not a neat, romantic, textbook sort of thing they show in the movies. It doesn’t have a precise process either. It can be awkward, messy and kinda hilarious!
Capture every moment
Your big day is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. You should hire a local wedding photographer who can capture your moments beautifully. After all, the flowers will fade, the cake will be devoured, but your wedding photos will remain forever! I know it’s been said a gazillion times before but it is by far my best tip to every bride.
STAY COMFORTABLE!
We totally understand that you want your dress to accentuate your figure perfectly and highlight your best body features. While last-minute alteration is a must, don’t forget to consider your comfort for the whole day. Ensure that after the dress modification, you can still sit without busting your gut!
Write your vows ahead of time
The day itself is already filled with pressure, and the last thing you need is a last-minute vow to think about. Write your wedding vows ahead of time to ensure that the piece will turn out well. Your partner deserves to hear your beautiful and heart-warming promise, anyway!
Hope this tips helps you out to be ready for your big day. Weddings Roatan can help you in every step of your dream wedding so you are stressing about little details! We got you! Book an appointment with us for more information.